“I suffered alone with my pain for so incredibly long. Don’t do that. It’s time I can’t get back. This program will help you rescue yourself from the rumination, the self loathing and the shame you have convinced yourself to carry.”
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Find Healing Beyond the Betrayal
I know why you're here. You've been carrying the unbearable weight of betrayal for far too long, and the path to healing feels elusive. The breakdowns, the constant fear, the overwhelming stress—it's all-consuming. You wonder if there's even a way out.
Does this sound familiar?
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You're feeling stuck and overwhelmed, unable to find a clear path to healing after your partner's betrayal.
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You feel broken and unfixable, trapped in a cycle of pain that just won't end.
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You've tried everything—couples therapy, individual therapy—and none of it worked, leaving you feeling even more broken.
Most of my clients have been exactly where you are right now, feeling like there's no escape from the anger, the shame, and the heartbreak. They've been stuck in this place for months, sometimes even years, despite all their efforts to heal.
And the worst part?
Trying to heal, only to feel like you've failed. There's nothing more terrifying and painful than putting your heart into recovery and still feeling like you're broken beyond repair.
Apply Now & Begin HealingHear Me When I Say, You're Not Alone.
This isn't just your story—it's the story of so many betrayed partners.
But the truth is, you're not broken. You just haven't had the right tools and support yet.
The good news is that healing is possible, and you're in the right place to begin that journey and say goodbye to feeling broken and overwhelmed.
My 4-month intensive program combines trauma processing, EMDR, somatic therapy, and group support to guide you through your healing journey.
Apply Now & Begin HealingIntroducing the
Healing From Infidelity Signature Program
A 4-month intensive program featuring 14 weeks of live group sessions, daily community support via WhatsApp, and exclusive access to 1:1 sessions for personalized coaching. Plus, you’ll gain access to my VIP group for an entire year, ensuring ongoing guidance and healing.
Imagine being guided by a seasoned couples and trauma therapist, an expert in infidelity recovery, who walks you through every aspect of healing—from unpacking your core beliefs to learning to trust again. You’ll gain the tools you need to process trauma and rebuild your sense of self.
My approach is rooted in evidence-based models like EMDR and Emotion-Focused Couples Therapy. With years of experience, I’ve helped dozens of clients heal from the deepest wounds of betrayal.
This isn’t just another course—this is your roadmap to recovery.
What my clients are saying
“Going through betrayal trauma has been one of the most difficult experiences in my life, it opened up some very deep wounds that wanted to be healed, having a guide to help me walk through the fire and a cohort of amazing humans gave me a sense of peace and connectedness when I felt so alone."
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“After only 5 weeks in this program, my intrusive thoughts and nightmares declined by more than 95%. This is after YEARS of individual therapy to heal from these trauma symptoms.”
- R
“My marriage survived because of this program. I feel safe loving my husband again. I finally feel I can set down the weight I’ve been carrying.”
- T
*We take client confidentiality seriously, which is why we do not share names, photos, or even screenshots of our testimonials.
There is nothing more healing and powerful than realizing that we are NOT alone in our pain…
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That our feelings are natural and normal.
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And that so many others who are lovable and good are going through the same struggles of pain, rage, self-hatred, and shame.
This course has been unbelievably empowering and transformative for participants who prioritize their healing. They’ve reported that their symptoms are either fully alleviated or drop down to 10% from 100% in just a few weeks.
Each week, we dive deep into trauma processing using the most evidence-based techniques for healing, including EMDR and somatic therapy techniques. The program also includes group shares, Q&A sessions, and homework modules, all centered around the universal themes of the betrayed partner experience.
For the first time, I am expanding this program to a 4-month process instead of the previous 2-month format, with the added benefit of daily community support via WhatsApp chat and access to my VIP group for an entire year!
Transformative 4-Month Journey
What You’ll Get in the Course:
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14 Weeks of Live Group Sessions: Focused on deep trauma processing using EMDR, somatic techniques, and other evidence-based healing modalities. Each session is designed to provide 1.5 hours of healing and guidance from an infidelity recovery and trauma expert, plus an additional hour of Q&A every other week in my VIP group.
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Accompanying Journaling and Homework Prompts: Deepen your exploration and healing between sessions with thoughtfully crafted exercises and prompts.
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WhatsApp Group Support: Engage with the community, ask questions, and receive support in real-time between sessions. You’ll never have to feel isolated or alone.
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1 Year Access to the VIP Group: Continue your healing journey with ongoing access to me and the community, including experiential exercises and additional support for your relationship dynamics.
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Exclusive 1:1 Session Access: Due to high demand, I only offer one-on-one coaching to those enrolled in my group coaching programs or retreats.
If you’re ready to experience:
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Transformative Healing:
Regain your peace of mind and self-worth.
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Empowered Boundaries:
Learn to set healthy boundaries and put your needs first.
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Rebuilt Trust:
Whether with yourself or your partner, you’ll develop the tools to trust again.
Then join the Healing From Infidelity Signature Program and start your journey to recovery today.
Apply Now & Begin HealingHi, I'm Rebecca
I’m honored to walk beside you as you begin this transformative healing journey.
Imagine having a seasoned couples and trauma therapist, an affair recovery expert with years of experience, guiding you through every aspect of healing from infidelity. Together, we will unpack the core beliefs and childhood wounding that have been influencing your life. I'll guide you through trauma processing to help heal your deepest triggers and shame. I’ll support you in sharing deeply and vulnerably with your partner, leading you through powerful exercises designed to foster self-compassion and self-forgiveness. Throughout, I’ll provide you with the critical psychoeducation needed to understand the complex layers of infidelity recovery.
My passion for this work stems from years of specialized training and a deep commitment to helping couples recover fully from infidelity. I’m a specialist in trauma therapy, couples therapy, and infidelity recovery, and my approach is grounded in evidence-based practices. I draw on techniques from EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing), Emotion-Focused Couples Therapy (EFT), and somatic therapy to create a healing experience that is both impactful and long-lasting. Additionally, I bring a unique perspective from my work teaching at a somatic therapy institute and developing restorative justice curricula, which adds depth and context to the healing process.
What makes my work unique is the integration of these advanced modalities with a deep understanding of trauma and relationship dynamics. I’ve seen firsthand how powerful these methods can be in accelerating insight, healing, and growth within relationships. My goal is to not only help you heal from the trauma of infidelity but to guide you toward a more satisfying and connected relationship than ever before.
Over the years, I’ve had the privilege of witnessing countless individuals and couples transform their lives through this process. I’m here to ensure that you, too, have the tools, guidance, and support you need to move forward into a future filled with hope, healing, and renewed connection.
Whether you're at the beginning of your healing journey or feeling stuck along the way, know that recovery is possible, and I’m here to walk this path with you every step of the way.
I created this program because I knew that healing would be so much more effective and empowering in a group setting—and I was right!
Inside of this comprehensive 4-Month container, we address the critical aspects that are essential for full recovery:
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1. Healing from Intrusive Thoughts and Negative Beliefs:
Understand and develop strategies to manage and overcome the intrusive thoughts caused by infidelity, and heal the negative core beliefs that may have contributed to the situation.
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2. Unprocessed Childhood Trauma:
Discover the role that unprocessed childhood trauma plays in your current infidelity issues and how to address and heal these wounds.
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3. Core Beliefs Underlying Infidelity:
Uncover the core beliefs that are contributing to the infidelity, and learn how to heal them for lasting change.
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4. Making Peace with Your History:
Most betrayed partners say, “All this time that they were cheating, I thought we were happy.” They no longer trust their view of reality and can’t reconcile their life and what it was with the double life their partner led. We will work on integrating both truths, and helping the brain reconcile the reality that the betrayed partner was living in alongside their partner’s acting out in pain and trauma.
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5. Attachment Theory:
Learn about attachment theory and understand how your attachment style—and your partner’s—impacts your relationship. This understanding is crucial to breaking free from destructive cycles.
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6. Breaking Codependent Cycles:
Explore the dynamics of co-dependent cycles and learn how to shift your relationship toward a healthier, interdependent dynamic.
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7. What Real Remorse and Accountability Look Like in the Partner that Cheated and How to Trust Your Instincts:
Discover what genuine remorse and accountability look like for the cheating partner, and explore the steps they can take to rebuild trust and show real change.
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8. Resourcing for Resilience:
Access practical tools to help you tap into your resilience as you move through this healing journey.
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9. Rescripting Maladaptive Core Beliefs:
Work through a step-by-step process to rescript the maladaptive core beliefs that are holding you back from true healing.
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10. Learning to Trust Yourself Again:
Heal the self-blame that tells you that you should have known better, should have spotted red flags, etc. and learn to strengthen and trust your intuition.
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11. Healing Your Relationship to Pleasure and Sensuality:
Often an affair can break the sexual bond and create lack of safety in the relationship. While rebuilding safety and trust in a relationship with betrayal can take time, the first relationship that needs attention is the betrayed partner’s relationship to their own body, pleasure and sensuality. That has been damaged and needs repair regardless
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12. Communicating with Compassion:
Discover techniques for effective communication and de-escalation with your partner. Learn to communicate underlying needs and feelings with softness and vulnerability, ultimately rebuilding trust and restructuring your bond.
What sets this course apart is that you have 21 hours of my time plus a beautiful, supportive community of people who are going through the exact thing that you are.
Additionally, you’ll gain lifetime access to all course materials, meaning you can revisit the content whenever you need a refresher or additional support as you continue your healing journey. You also get my answers and guidance daily over whatsapp, and you get an additional 2 hours a month with me in the VIP group for an entire year to ask questions and get support and feedback.
Apply Now & Begin HealingHere’s what my clients are saying about the program:
“I am forever grateful for everything Rebecca and the participants in this group have done for me. I felt so supported, understood and safe. I learned so much from both Rebecca as well as the other members of the group listening to their experiences and questions. Thank you so so so much for this valuable gift of healing. I truly believe I'll be a better mother, daughter, sister, friend and wife because of this process. But most of all I believe I'll be a better friend & companion to myself. Much love and gratitude for everything, Rebecca!”
- K
“Through my work with Rebecca, I have learned that my partner’s cheating was an effort to heal his own wounds. To soothe his own pain. To validate his own worth. It happened in spite of me, not because of me. There was no deficit in me that made this happen- not one. But my own trauma history, my inability to imagine my partner as less than perfect, and my denial resulted in my ignoring red flags that were very clearly there. I stopped trusting my instincts which had been finely honed, and previously very protective.”
- S
“You'll uncover things you didn't even know were there. You learn so much about yourself and your situation that is empowering to finding your own path along this dark journey. Navigating this healing journey with Rebecca and the other members of the group feels like you have a guide walking with you along a path that is illuminated by the warm glow of path lights. A trail that once felt very dark, cold, scary and lonely now feels more inviting, peaceful, hopeful and doable.”
- J
“Thank you Rebecca. While we are not in a perfect place, or even in the best place we can possibly be, we are in an amazing place. And my goal of having the partner I have always wanted is in reach. Believing that I am a good and kind person who is deserving of love, and of being first in someone’s life is in sight for me. Finding my way back to trusting myself is in reach for me. Intimacy has returned to our marriage. So many wonderful days ahead are in reach for both of us. And we couldn’t have done it without you…EMDR has changed my life. There is no exaggeration here, and the relief it has provided, and the insights it has helped me achieve are nothing short of miraculous.”
- S
“Rebecca's program helps you understand that you are not broken, you are not alone, and there is a way forward if you want to find one.”
- C
“I just reached my one year anniversary of D-Day and it’s the first time in a year that I’ve actually felt ok and like there is hope for me after my partner left for the Affair Partner. With this new feeling of emotional freedom, I wanted to thank you for all of your help over this year. I don’t know how I would’ve gotten through it without you. I’m so appreciative that you took me under your wing. Your kindness and wisdom are the reason I was able to get through the worst of it.”
- E
*We take client confidentiality seriously, which is why we do not share names, photos, or even screenshots of our testimonials.
FAQs
When is the next group starting?
I’ve already tried everything and nothing has worked. Why are you so sure this will help?
I already have a therapist and they have helped me. How is this different?
This is expensive. How do I know that it is worth it?
My situation is unique. I am not sure I will relate to the other group members.
My partner left me for the Affair Partner. Is this group still for me?
If you’re ready to reclaim your life after infidelity and start the healing process, this is your moment.
Imagine how your life could change if you could:
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Heal Negative Beliefs: Finally release those deeply rooted beliefs that have kept you stuck in pain and self-doubt.
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Navigate Intrusive Thoughts: Gain the tools to manage and overcome the constant intrusive thoughts that have been holding you hostage.
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Understand Trauma and Post Infidelity Stress Disorder: Learn how trauma from infidelity has impacted your well-being and find the path to recovery.
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Rebuild Trust: Whether it’s rebuilding trust in yourself or with your partner, you’ll gain the confidence to move forward with clarity.
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Communicate with Compassion: Discover techniques for clear, compassionate communication with your partner, allowing you both to express your needs with softness and vulnerability.
You don’t have to face this journey alone. The Healing From Infidelity Signature Program is here to guide and support you every step of the way.
Enroll now and begin your journey to healing, transformation, and renewed connection.
Apply Now & Begin Healing