“You will walk away with a different perspective on who and what you are. With that perspective, you can start to rebuild relationships in a new and better way. Perhaps at the end, realize what is really important.”
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From Shame to Healing
I know why you're here. You've been carrying the unbearable weight of your cheating for far too long, and the path to healing feels elusive. Your partner’s breakdowns and the terrible fights, the overwhelming stress on both of you, your heavy sense of guilt and dread—it's all-consuming. You wonder if there's even a way out.
Does this sound familiar?
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You feel terrified that you’ve destroyed your marriage and hurt your partner, and that they will never heal.
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You feel intense shame and don’t know how to support your partner when they are in pain. Everything you say seems to make things worse between you.
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You've tried everything—couples therapy, individual therapy—and none of it has worked, leaving you feeling even more broken.
Most of my clients have been exactly where you are right now, feeling like there's no escape from the shame, the shut down, and the heartbreak. They've been stuck in this rut with their partner for months, sometimes even years, despite all their efforts to heal.
And the worst part?
Trying to heal, only to feel like you've failed. There's nothing more terrifying and painful than putting your heart into recovery and still feeling like you and your relationship are broken beyond repair.
BEGIN RECOVERYHear Me When I Say, You're Not Alone.
This isn't just your story—it's the story of so many straying partners.
But the truth is, you're not broken or a terrible person. You just haven't had the right tools and support yet.
The good news is that healing is possible, and you're in the right place to begin that journey and say goodbye to feeling broken and overwhelmed.
My 4-month intensive program combines trauma processing, EMDR, somatic therapy, and group support to guide you through your healing journey.
Introducing the
Heal Yourself and Your Relationship After You Cheated Signature Program:
A 4-month intensive program featuring 14 weeks of live group sessions, daily community support via WhatsApp, and exclusive access to 1:1 sessions for personalized coaching. Plus, you’ll gain access to my VIP group for an entire year, ensuring ongoing guidance and healing.
Imagine being guided by a seasoned couples and trauma therapist, an expert in infidelity recovery, who walks you through every aspect of healing—from unpacking your core beliefs to healing your shame and wounding that caused your betrayal to begin with. You’ll gain the tools you need to process trauma and rebuild your sense of self. You’ll also learn how to show up for your partner and help them heal.
My approach is rooted in evidence-based models like EMDR and Emotion-Focused Couples Therapy. With years of experience, I’ve helped dozens of clients heal from the deepest wounds of betrayal.
This isn’t just another course—this is your roadmap to recovery.
START YOUR JOURNEY”I learned to understand and forgive myself. I feel a new level of peace and hope, and my relationship with my partner is better than it’s been in a long time.”
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There is nothing more healing and powerful than realizing that we are NOT alone in our pain…
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That our feelings are natural and normal.
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And that so many others who are lovable and good are going through the same struggles of pain, self-loathing, and shame.
This course has been unbelievably empowering and transformative for participants who prioritize their healing. They’ve reported that they feel so much better about themselves and see so much improvement in their relationship as a result of this program.
Each week, we dive deep into trauma processing using the most evidence-based techniques for healing, including EMDR and somatic therapy techniques. The program also includes group shares, Q&A sessions, and homework modules, all centered around the universal themes of the cheating partner’s experience and healing journey.
For the first time, I am expanding this program to a 4-month process instead of the previous 2-month format, with the added benefit of daily community support via WhatsApp chat and access to my VIP group for an entire year!
Transformative 4-Month Journey
What You’ll Get in the Course:
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14 Weeks of Live Group Sessions: Focused on deep trauma processing using EMDR, somatic techniques, and other evidence-based healing modalities. Each session is designed to provide 1.5 hours of healing and guidance from an infidelity recovery and trauma expert, plus an additional hour of Q&A every other week in my VIP group.
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Accompanying Journaling and Homework Prompts: Deepen your exploration and healing between sessions with thoughtfully crafted exercises and prompts.
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WhatsApp Group Support: Engage with the community, ask questions, and receive support in real-time between sessions. You’ll never have to feel isolated or alone.
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1 Year Access to the VIP Group: Continue your healing journey with ongoing access to me and the community, including experiential exercises and additional support for your relationship dynamics.
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Exclusive 1:1 Session Access: Due to high demand, I only offer one-on-one coaching to those enrolled in my group coaching programs or retreats.
If you’re ready to experience:
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Transformative Healing:
Regain your peace of mind and self-worth.
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Accountability:
Learn to hold yourself accountable without self-blame and shame so that you and your partner can both heal.
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Rebuilt Trust:
Learn how to give your partner the right kind of support and communication to rebuild their trust.
Then join the Heal Yourself and Your Relationship After You Cheated program and start your journey to recovery today.
I'M READY TO HEALSecure your spot and receive over
$1700 worth of exclusive bonuses, including:
Hi, I'm Rebecca
I’m honored to walk beside you as you begin this transformative healing journey.
Imagine having a seasoned couples and trauma therapist, an affair recovery expert with years of experience, guiding you through every aspect of healing from infidelity. Together, we will unpack the core beliefs and childhood wounding that have been influencing your life. I'll guide you through trauma processing to help heal your deepest triggers and shame. I’ll support you in sharing deeply and vulnerably with your partner, leading you through powerful exercises designed to foster self-compassion and self-forgiveness. Throughout, I’ll provide you with the critical psychoeducation needed to understand the complex layers of infidelity recovery.
My passion for this work stems from years of specialized training and a deep commitment to helping couples recover fully from infidelity. I’m a specialist in trauma therapy, couples therapy, and infidelity recovery, and my approach is grounded in evidence-based practices. I draw on techniques from EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing), Emotion-Focused Couples Therapy (EFT), and somatic therapy to create a healing experience that is both impactful and long-lasting. Additionally, I bring a unique perspective from my work teaching at a somatic therapy institute and developing restorative justice curricula, which adds depth and context to the healing process.
What makes my work unique is the integration of these advanced modalities with a deep understanding of trauma and relationship dynamics. I’ve seen firsthand how powerful these methods can be in accelerating insight, healing, and growth within relationships. My goal is to not only help you heal from the trauma of infidelity but to guide you toward a more satisfying and connected relationship than ever before.
Over the years, I’ve had the privilege of witnessing countless individuals and couples transform their lives through this process. I’m here to ensure that you, too, have the tools, guidance, and support you need to move forward into a future filled with hope, healing, and renewed connection.
Whether you're at the beginning of your healing journey or feeling stuck along the way, know that recovery is possible, and I’m here to walk this path with you every step of the way.
I created this program because I knew that healing would be so much more effective and empowering in a group setting—and I was right!
Inside of this comprehensive 4-Month container, we address the critical aspects that are essential for full recovery:
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Trauma 101: Understanding trauma, how to achieve post traumatic growth and the role of trauma symptoms.
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How to unpack and understand your coping strategies to numb out, escape and seek validation and attention elsewhere.
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What role your unprocessed childhood trauma has in your current infidelity issues.
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What core beliefs are underlying the infidelity that you are believing and how to heal them.
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What attachment theory is and how you and your partner’s attachment styles impact your relationship.
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How co-dependent cycles work and how to break the cycle.
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What real remorse and accountability look like and how to access that state.
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Restorative justice principles and how it can inform a healthy repair process.
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What your specific negative cycles are in couple’s dynamics and how to have healing conversations that restructure your bond.
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Exploring intergenerational trauma and its role in perpetuating patterns of addiction, escape and betrayal.
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Working with shame. Learn the difference between helpful and limiting shame, and gain techniques to work with shame in a constructive way.
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Self-forgiveness and its role in the healing process.
What sets this course apart is that you have 21 hours of my time plus a beautiful, supportive community of people who are going through the exact thing that you are.
Additionally, you’ll gain lifetime access to all course materials, meaning you can revisit the content whenever you need a refresher or additional support as you continue your healing journey. You also get my answers and guidance daily over whatsapp, and you get an additional 2 hours a month with me in the VIP group for an entire year to ask questions and get support and feedback.
BEGIN TRANSFORMATIONSecure your spot and receive
$1700 worth of exclusive bonuses, including:
Here’s what my clients are saying about the program:
“I liked getting to meet everyone and hearing their stories. We all have different, but essentially similar, stories regardless of background. It was nice feeling like I wasn't alone.”
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“This course was so helpful in teaching me how to manage my shame and move through it to address my partner's pain. We are lightyears ahead of where we were in the recovery process because of this program.”
- N
“I think Rebecca is so knowledgeable on this subject and the way that she can frame a concept that seems very overwhelming in my head and put it in a normalized perspective was so beyond healing and supportive.”
- A
“If you’re considering this program, definitely DO IT! I joined this group as a way to show my partner I was committed to healing US, but I was not prepared for the amount of personal healing and reconciliation that was about to transpire. I am so grateful for Rebecca and the group I was able to partake in. I feel so much comfort in understanding my behavior (my “why”) feeling like I am not damaged and I’m able to heal from this as well as heal for my future lineage. My partner and I are able to have deeper conversations without it resulting in damaging communication all the time, and overall we are on the path to healing together at a much better rate than prior to this group.”
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“Rebecca... Thank you! I so appreciate your wisdom and your heart. Your authenticity is palpable. Many of the other programs, workshops, etc. that I've participated in felt like theory and knowledge. This work feels practical and useful. Thank you!”
- S
“Just do it. Do it now. Your happiness relies on it.”
- M
*We take client confidentiality seriously, which is why we do not share names, photos, or even screenshots of our testimonials.
FAQs
When is the next group starting?
I’ve already tried everything and nothing has worked. Why are you so sure this will help?
I already have a therapist and they have helped me. How is this different?
This is expensive. How do I know that it is worth it?
My situation is unique. I am not sure I will relate to the other group members.
If you’re ready to reclaim your life after infidelity and start the healing process, this is your moment.
Imagine how your life could change if you could:
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Heal Negative Beliefs: Finally release those deeply rooted beliefs that have kept you stuck in pain and self-doubt, and that likely caused your cheating behavior in the first place.
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Heal from Overwhelming Shame: Gain the tools to manage and overcome the constant feelings of shame that have been holding you hostage and shutting you down in painful conversations with your partner. Understand trauma and attachment theory and their role in shaping your patterns of numbing out, escape and seeking out needs from alternative sources.
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Rebuild Trust: Whether it’s rebuilding trust in yourself or with your partner, you’ll gain the confidence to move forward with clarity.
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Communicate with Compassion: Discover techniques for clear, compassionate communication with your partner, allowing you both to express your needs with softness and vulnerability.
You don’t have to face this journey alone. The Heal Yourself and Your Relationship After You Cheated Signature Program is here to guide and support you every step of the way.
Enroll now and begin your journey to healing, transformation, and renewed connection.
ENROLL NOW