“I suffered alone with my pain for so incredibly long. Don’t do that. It’s time I can’t get back. This program will help you rescue yourself from the rumination, the self loathing and the shame you have convinced yourself to carry.”
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Find Healing Beyond the Betrayal
Does this sound familiar?
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You're feeling stuck and overwhelmed, unable to find a clear path to healing after your partner's betrayal.
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You feel broken and unfixable, trapped in a cycle of pain that just won't end.
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You've tried everything—couples therapy, individual therapy—and none of it worked, leaving you feeling even more broken.
Hear Me When I Say, You're Not Alone.
This isn't just your story. It's the story of so many betrayed partners.
But the truth is, you're not broken. You just haven't had the right tools and support yet.
The good news is that healing is possible, and you're in the right place to begin that journey and say goodbye to feeling broken and overwhelmed.
Apply Now & Begin HealingIntroducing the
Healing From Infidelity Signature Program
A 3-month intensive program featuring 12-week intensive group coaching program with live weekly sessions, daily community support via WhatsApp, and 4 individual coaching sessions with a coach trained by me. Plus, you'll have intensive coaching support with me for an entire year, ensuring ongoing guidance and healing.
Transformative 3-Month Journey
What You’ll Get in the Course:
- 12-Week Intensive Group Coaching Program:Â Focused on deep trauma processing using EMDR, somatic techniques, and other evidence-based healing modalities. Each session is designed to provide 1.5 hours of healing and guidance from an infidelity recovery and trauma expert, plus an additional hour of Q&A every other week in my Bridge Membership.
- Accompanying Journaling and Homework Prompts:Â Deepen your exploration and healing between sessions with thoughtfully crafted exercises and prompts.
- 4 Individual Coaching Sessions with a Coach Trained by Rebecca:Â Sometimes you need to work something through one-on-one, in private. These sessions are with a coach I've personally trained in my approach, so the work stays consistent with everything you're doing in group.
- WhatsApp Group Support: Engage with the community, ask questions, and receive support in real-time between sessions. You’ll never have to feel isolated or alone.
- 1 Year Intensive Coaching Support with Rebecca: Continue your healing journey with ongoing access to me and the Bridge Membership community, including experiential exercises and additional support for your relationship dynamics.
- Couples Package: If both partners enroll in their respective groups at the same time, you get my couples program included — 12 couple sessions to do the relational work alongside your individual healing.
Hi, I'm Rebecca
I’m honored to walk beside you as you begin this transformative healing journey.
Imagine having a seasoned couples and trauma therapist, an affair recovery expert with years of experience, guiding you through every aspect of healing from infidelity. Together, we will unpack the core beliefs and childhood wounding that have been influencing your life. I'll guide you through trauma processing to help heal your deepest triggers and shame. I’ll support you in sharing deeply and vulnerably with your partner, leading you through powerful exercises designed to foster self-compassion and self-forgiveness. Throughout, I’ll provide you with the critical psychoeducation needed to understand the complex layers of infidelity recovery.
My passion for this work stems from years of specialized training and a deep commitment to helping couples recover fully from infidelity. I’m a specialist in trauma therapy, couples therapy, and infidelity recovery, and my approach is grounded in evidence-based practices. I draw on techniques from EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing), Emotion-Focused Couples Therapy (EFT), and somatic therapy to create a healing experience that is both impactful and long-lasting. Additionally, I bring a unique perspective from my work teaching at a somatic therapy institute and developing restorative justice curricula, which adds depth and context to the healing process.
Inside of this comprehensive 3-Month container, we address the critical aspects that are essential for full recovery:
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1. Healing from Intrusive Thoughts and Negative Beliefs:
Understand and develop strategies to manage and overcome the intrusive thoughts caused by infidelity, and heal the negative core beliefs that may have contributed to the situation.
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2. Unprocessed Childhood Trauma:
Discover the role that unprocessed childhood trauma plays in your current infidelity issues and how to address and heal these wounds.
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3. Core Beliefs Underlying Infidelity:
Uncover the core beliefs that are contributing to the infidelity, and learn how to heal them for lasting change.
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4. Making Peace with Your History:
Most betrayed partners say, “All this time that they were cheating, I thought we were happy.” They no longer trust their view of reality and can’t reconcile their life and what it was with the double life their partner led. We will work on integrating both truths, and helping the brain reconcile the reality that the betrayed partner was living in alongside their partner’s acting out in pain and trauma.
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5. Attachment Theory:
Learn about attachment theory and understand how your attachment style and your partner’s impacts your relationship. This understanding is crucial to breaking free from destructive cycles.
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6. Breaking Codependent Cycles:
Explore the dynamics of co-dependent cycles and learn how to shift your relationship toward a healthier, interdependent dynamic.
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7. What Real Remorse and Accountability Look Like in the Partner that Cheated and How to Trust Your Instincts:
Discover what genuine remorse and accountability look like for the cheating partner, and explore the steps they can take to rebuild trust and show real change.
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8. Resourcing for Resilience:
Access practical tools to help you tap into your resilience as you move through this healing journey.
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9. Rescripting Maladaptive Core Beliefs:
Work through a step-by-step process to rescript the maladaptive core beliefs that are holding you back from true healing.
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10. Learning to Trust Yourself Again:
Heal the self-blame that tells you that you should have known better, should have spotted red flags, etc. and learn to strengthen and trust your intuition.
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11. Healing Your Relationship to Pleasure and Sensuality:
Often an affair can break the sexual bond and create lack of safety in the relationship. While rebuilding safety and trust in a relationship with betrayal can take time, the first relationship that needs attention is the betrayed partner’s relationship to their own body, pleasure and sensuality. That has been damaged and needs repair regardless
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12. Communicating with Compassion:
Discover techniques for effective communication and de-escalation with your partner. Learn to communicate underlying needs and feelings with softness and vulnerability, ultimately rebuilding trust and restructuring your bond.
What sets this course apart is that you have 21 hours of my time plus a beautiful, supportive community of people who are going through the exact thing that you are.Â
Apply Now & Begin HealingHere’s what my clients are saying about the program:
“I am forever grateful for everything Rebecca and the participants in this group have done for me. I felt so supported, understood and safe. I learned so much from both Rebecca as well as the other members of the group listening to their experiences and questions. Thank you so so so much for this valuable gift of healing. I truly believe I'll be a better mother, daughter, sister, friend and wife because of this process. But most of all I believe I'll be a better friend & companion to myself. Much love and gratitude for everything, Rebecca!”
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“Through my work with Rebecca, I have learned that my partner’s cheating was an effort to heal his own wounds. To soothe his own pain. To validate his own worth. It happened in spite of me, not because of me. There was no deficit in me that made this happen- not one. But my own trauma history, my inability to imagine my partner as less than perfect, and my denial resulted in my ignoring red flags that were very clearly there. I stopped trusting my instincts which had been finely honed, and previously very protective.”
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“You'll uncover things you didn't even know were there. You learn so much about yourself and your situation that is empowering to finding your own path along this dark journey. Navigating this healing journey with Rebecca and the other members of the group feels like you have a guide walking with you along a path that is illuminated by the warm glow of path lights. A trail that once felt very dark, cold, scary and lonely now feels more inviting, peaceful, hopeful and doable.”
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“Thank you Rebecca. While we are not in a perfect place, or even in the best place we can possibly be, we are in an amazing place. And my goal of having the partner I have always wanted is in reach. Believing that I am a good and kind person who is deserving of love, and of being first in someone’s life is in sight for me. Finding my way back to trusting myself is in reach for me. Intimacy has returned to our marriage. So many wonderful days ahead are in reach for both of us. And we couldn’t have done it without you…EMDR has changed my life. There is no exaggeration here, and the relief it has provided, and the insights it has helped me achieve are nothing short of miraculous.”
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“Rebecca's program helps you understand that you are not broken, you are not alone, and there is a way forward if you want to find one.”
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“I just reached my one year anniversary of D-Day and it’s the first time in a year that I’ve actually felt ok and like there is hope for me after my partner left for the Affair Partner. With this new feeling of emotional freedom, I wanted to thank you for all of your help over this year. I don’t know how I would’ve gotten through it without you. I’m so appreciative that you took me under your wing. Your kindness and wisdom are the reason I was able to get through the worst of it.”
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*We take client confidentiality seriously, which is why we do not share names, photos, or even screenshots of our testimonials.
FAQs
When is the next group starting?
I’ve already tried everything and nothing has worked. Why are you so sure this will help?
I already have a therapist and they have helped me. How is this different?
This is expensive. How do I know that it is worth it?
My situation is unique. I am not sure I will relate to the other group members.
My partner left me for the Affair Partner. Is this group still for me?
If you’re ready to reclaim your life after infidelity and start the healing process, this is your moment.
Imagine how your life could change if you could:
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Heal Negative Beliefs: Finally release those deeply rooted beliefs that have kept you stuck in pain and self-doubt.
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Navigate Intrusive Thoughts: Gain the tools to manage and overcome the constant intrusive thoughts that have been holding you hostage.
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Understand Trauma and Post Infidelity Stress Disorder: Learn how trauma from infidelity has impacted your well-being and find the path to recovery.
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Rebuild Trust: Whether it’s rebuilding trust in yourself or with your partner, you’ll gain the confidence to move forward with clarity.
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Communicate with Compassion: Discover techniques for clear, compassionate communication with your partner, allowing you both to express your needs with softness and vulnerability.
You don’t have to face this journey alone. The Healing From Infidelity Signature Program is here to guide and support you every step of the way.Â
Enroll now and begin your journey to healing, transformation, and renewed connection.
Apply Now & Begin Healing