“I suffered alone with my pain for so incredibly long. Don’t do that. It’s time I can’t get back. This program will help you rescue yourself from the rumination, the self loathing and the shame you have convinced yourself to carry.”
-H
Find Healing Beyond the Betrayal
I know why you're here. You've been carrying the unbearable weight of betrayal for far too long, and the path to healing feels elusive. The breakdowns, the constant fear, the overwhelming stress—it's all-consuming. You wonder if there's even a way out.
Does this sound familiar?
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You're feeling stuck and overwhelmed, unable to find a clear path to healing after your partner's betrayal.
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You feel broken and unfixable, trapped in a cycle of pain that just won't end.
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You've tried everything—couples therapy, individual therapy—and none of it worked, leaving you feeling even more broken.
Most of my clients have been exactly where you are right now, feeling like there's no escape from the anger, the shame, and the heartbreak. They've been stuck in this place for months, sometimes even years, despite all their efforts to heal.
And the worst part?
Trying to heal, only to feel like you've failed. There's nothing more terrifying and painful than putting your heart into recovery and still feeling like you're broken beyond repair.
Apply Now & Begin HealingHear Me When I Say, You're Not Alone.
This isn't just your story—it's the story of so many betrayed partners.
But the truth is, you're not broken. You just haven't had the right tools and support yet.
The good news is that healing is possible, and you're in the right place to begin that journey and say goodbye to feeling broken and overwhelmed.
My 3-month intensive program combines trauma processing, EMDR, somatic therapy, and group support to guide you through your healing journey.
Apply Now & Begin HealingHi, I'm Rebecca
I’m honored to walk beside you as you begin this transformative healing journey.
Imagine having a seasoned couples and trauma therapist, an affair recovery expert with years of experience, guiding you through every aspect of healing from infidelity. Together, we will unpack the core beliefs and childhood wounding that have been influencing your life. I'll guide you through trauma processing to help heal your deepest triggers and shame. I’ll support you in sharing deeply and vulnerably with your partner, leading you through powerful exercises designed to foster self-compassion and self-forgiveness. Throughout, I’ll provide you with the critical psychoeducation needed to understand the complex layers of infidelity recovery.
My passion for this work stems from years of specialized training and a deep commitment to helping couples recover fully from infidelity. I’m a specialist in trauma therapy, couples therapy, and infidelity recovery, and my approach is grounded in evidence-based practices. I draw on techniques from EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing), Emotion-Focused Couples Therapy (EFT), and somatic therapy to create a healing experience that is both impactful and long-lasting. Additionally, I bring a unique perspective from my work teaching at a somatic therapy institute and developing restorative justice curricula, which adds depth and context to the healing process.
What makes my work unique is the integration of these advanced modalities with a deep understanding of trauma and relationship dynamics. I’ve seen firsthand how powerful these methods can be in accelerating insight, healing, and growth within relationships. My goal is to not only help you heal from the trauma of infidelity but to guide you toward a more satisfying and connected relationship than ever before.
Over the years, I’ve had the privilege of witnessing countless individuals and couples transform their lives through this process. I’m here to ensure that you, too, have the tools, guidance, and support you need to move forward into a future filled with hope, healing, and renewed connection.
Whether you're at the beginning of your healing journey or feeling stuck along the way, know that recovery is possible, and I’m here to walk this path with you every step of the way.
Here’s what my clients are saying about the program:
“I am forever grateful for everything Rebecca and the participants in this group have done for me. I felt so supported, understood and safe. I learned so much from both Rebecca as well as the other members of the group listening to their experiences and questions. Thank you so so so much for this valuable gift of healing. I truly believe I'll be a better mother, daughter, sister, friend and wife because of this process. But most of all I believe I'll be a better friend & companion to myself. Much love and gratitude for everything, Rebecca!”
- K
“Through my work with Rebecca, I have learned that my partner’s cheating was an effort to heal his own wounds. To soothe his own pain. To validate his own worth. It happened in spite of me, not because of me. There was no deficit in me that made this happen- not one. But my own trauma history, my inability to imagine my partner as less than perfect, and my denial resulted in my ignoring red flags that were very clearly there. I stopped trusting my instincts which had been finely honed, and previously very protective.”
- S
“You'll uncover things you didn't even know were there. You learn so much about yourself and your situation that is empowering to finding your own path along this dark journey. Navigating this healing journey with Rebecca and the other members of the group feels like you have a guide walking with you along a path that is illuminated by the warm glow of path lights. A trail that once felt very dark, cold, scary and lonely now feels more inviting, peaceful, hopeful and doable.”
- J
“Thank you Rebecca. While we are not in a perfect place, or even in the best place we can possibly be, we are in an amazing place. And my goal of having the partner I have always wanted is in reach. Believing that I am a good and kind person who is deserving of love, and of being first in someone’s life is in sight for me. Finding my way back to trusting myself is in reach for me. Intimacy has returned to our marriage. So many wonderful days ahead are in reach for both of us. And we couldn’t have done it without you…EMDR has changed my life. There is no exaggeration here, and the relief it has provided, and the insights it has helped me achieve are nothing short of miraculous.”
- S
“Rebecca's program helps you understand that you are not broken, you are not alone, and there is a way forward if you want to find one.”
- C
“I just reached my one year anniversary of D-Day and it’s the first time in a year that I’ve actually felt ok and like there is hope for me after my partner left for the Affair Partner. With this new feeling of emotional freedom, I wanted to thank you for all of your help over this year. I don’t know how I would’ve gotten through it without you. I’m so appreciative that you took me under your wing. Your kindness and wisdom are the reason I was able to get through the worst of it.”
- E
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