Get the Healing you Deserve After Infidelity:
Couples Retreat in the Belize Rainforest
“How I wish we would have had the opportunity to do this 4 years ago! It was truly transformational and would have saved us so much pain, heartache, money, and time. The level of expertise is unmatched, and if you are committed to staying together, even after horrific betrayal, this is the way to accomplish that goal.”
Finding a Way Forward Together
Most of the clients I work with in the aftermath of an affair, or several, tell me that despite all of the work they are doing— individual and couples therapy— they are still stuck and miserable with no clear path forward.
Many report that:
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They have been stuck in a negative cycle for months or years.
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They feel like they are on the verge of giving up. Despite this, they aren’t quite ready to give up because they still love each other and have a vision of what their lives could look like after healing.
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They have no idea how to achieve that vision.
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They realize that continuing with the status quo, such as weekly therapy sessions, isn't leading to progress.
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They feel they can’t continue living in this painful and disconnected state.
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No one has shown them a clear path to healing.
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They are terrified that they will never find happiness again, never return to their strong and resilient selves, and that trying to fix their broken relationship might be a waste of time and money.
Despite their many months (or years) of couples therapy, they still get into negative cycles with each other that they don’t understand and that sends both of them into the worst sense of despair and isolation that they’ve ever felt.
If this sounds like you, you are NOT alone. Most of the clients I’ve worked with who HAVE HEALED came to my retreats saying the same exact thing.
APPLY NOW TO SPEAK WITH REBECCATransforming Pain into Love Again
Before attending my retreats, my clients spend months, years, and thousands of dollars on therapists and coaches who don’t actually help them heal. They stay stuck in trauma spins for years, even decades. In fact, many of the couples who report transformation after the retreat were on the verge of dropping out multiple times. They booked their flights, paid their deposit, but didn’t know if their relationship would survive until the retreat and whether to invest in more work on their relationship or just call it quits. They all say now that it is a miracle they actually made it to the retreat.
It's disheartening because every one of us has the capacity to heal from this. The betrayed partner's intrusive thoughts, rage, breakdowns, and feelings of brokenness, as well as the cheating partner's defensiveness, shame, gaslighting, blame, and shutdown—it's all healable with the right process and understanding. I've witnessed this transformation dozens of times, and it's truly magical to see.
Get the Healing You Deserve After Infidelity Today!
About Rebecca Stone
LCSW, CHT, C-EFT
Hi, I'm Rebecca, I'm honored to walk beside you as you begin this healing journey. Imagine having a seasoned couples and trauma therapist, as well as an affair recovery expert, guide you through every aspect of healing from infidelity. I will help each of you unpack your core beliefs and childhood wounds, guide you through trauma processing to heal your triggers and shame, support you in sharing deeply and vulnerably with each other, lead you through powerful healing exercises to foster self-compassion and self-forgiveness, and provide critical psychoeducation about infidelity recovery and its many layers. And on top of that, after each of you has done your own deep healing work and understands your negative beliefs, I will help you unpack your negative cycle with each other and teach you how to communicate with compassion and vulnerability so that you can feel connected and hopeful again.
As a specialist in infidelity, couples therapy, and trauma, I am passionate about helping couples on their road to full recovery from infidelity. My work is influenced by training in evidence-based models including EMDR, Emotion-Focused Couples Therapy (EFT), family constellations work, and teaching for a somatic therapy institute and a restorative justice curriculum. My expertise in these modalities ensures that you have a transformative experience that speeds up insight, healing, and shows you how satisfying and connected your relationship can be.
My retreats are so special because I facilitate them with my husband, also a gifted facilitator and therapist with the same training as me. He also leads some of the other healing activities for the group like sound healing and fire ceremony.
About Dr. Benjamin Kagedan
PSYD, CHT, PATP
Benjamin, also known as Binny, is the Director of Clinical Training and Psychedelic Services for Brooklyn Somatic Therapy and Philly Somatic Therapy.
He received a doctorate in clinical psychology from Rutgers University Graduate School of Applied and Professional Psychology. He is a certified teacher and practitioner of the Hakomi Method of Mindful Somatic Psychotherapy, an approach that blends somatic and experiential therapy with mindfulness practices. Binny completed certification in psychedelic-assisted therapy through the Integrative Psychiatry Institute and is trained in EMDR.
He is a musician, a trained sound healer, and a passionate student of philosophy, spirituality, and the arts. He enjoys drawing on these interests to enrich and expand his work with clients.
See what my clients have to say about the life-changing retreat
“I cannot thank Rebecca and Binny enough. At this moment, I believe our relationship is on a path to being the best it's ever been in 28 years. This would not be possible without going through this program. The work they are doing is incredible and I wish we could find a way to make it more widely available.
- E
“One session with Rebecca has been more helpful than all of the couples therapy we have had. We learned to talk to each other again. I found and healed my childhood trauma which has been preventing me from healing. I watched my partner do some really hard healing work too. I don’t feel stuck anymore. For the first time in a long time, there is hope.”
- D
“The overall access and guidance provided by Rebecca and Binny is life changing. It can take you from a place of desperation and anxiety and transform that into openness and empathy for you and your partner. It is so easy to get stuck in a negative cycle due to familiarity but the program helps identify why that's not necessary and the tools to grow beyond that mindset.”
- G
“Just do it! This is not just "marriage counseling". This is self-healing that will impact your marriage to a degree that you can't imagine!”
- J
“I believe in a god of miracles, and this experienced has made that a reality for my family at this time. it will change the trajectory of our lives in the most Positive way! The intensive experience launched us in a positive space and direction for our future. What I've realized is that our problems are not insurmountable.”
- H
“Rebecca's mastery of affair recovery and guidance for you as an individual and as a couple cannot be quantified. As a betrayed partner, you are in the depths of despair, crushed with so much pain and overwhelmed with emotion. Rebecca is the only person who's been able to show me not only the light at the end of the tunnel, but the path to get there, and given my husband the shovel to help dig us out. This retreat was worth every penny, and more.”
- J
*We take client confidentiality seriously, which is why we do not share names, photos, or even screenshots of our testimonials.
About the Retreat
I created this program because I knew that healing would be much more effective and efficient in an intensive group model. While weekly therapy can be beneficial, couples often spend half their sessions recounting their pain from the week and barely engage in deep healing work due to time constraints. When the pain is so intense, a slow, tedious process that takes years isn’t feasible—couples need intensive and swift intervention. They need to heal NOW and trust in their ability to recover and salvage their relationship. The longer they remain stuck in hopelessness, the deeper the rift and disconnect become.
What to Expect from the Retreat
26 hours of intensive work in both group work and couples work:
Focused on deep trauma processing using EMDR, somatic techniques and other evidence-based healing modalities. Each couple gets a combined 6 hours of intensive therapeutic work along with daily facilitated couples conversations, and one 1:1 couples session with me during the retreat.
An additional 2 one-on-one couples sessions with me upon couples’ return home post retreat:
This ensures that couples will sustain their learning and growth and receive additional support to practice all they learned in the retreat in an integrated way.
Other healing modalities to foster connection, self-reflection and vulnerability include:
Cacao ceremony, forest bathing, sound healing, family constellations workshops, and sacred song and sharing circles.
Accompanying journal writing prompts to deepen your exploration and healing:
Explore your inner self and enhance your healing journey with our journal writing prompts. These thoughtfully crafted prompts will guide your reflections, deepen your insights, and support your growth throughout the retreat.
WhatsApp group to facilitate ongoing conversation and support in the community:
You never have to feel isolated and alone when the retreat is over. You have a sense of deep bonding with the community you’ve created and you can turn to each other for ongoing support.
Access to my VIP group for 1 year:
You can continue to ask questions, seek advice, and receive assessments of your struggles and relationship dynamics. Additionally, you’ll have the opportunity to engage in further experiential exercises to facilitate healing.
Exclusive Access to 1:1 sessions with me for ongoing support and coaching:
Due to high demand and a packed schedule, I offer one-on-one sessions only to clients enrolled in my group coaching programs or retreats.
Here’s exactly what you’ll process and heal during our time together:
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Trauma 101: Understanding trauma, how to achieve post traumatic growth and the role of trauma symptoms
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How to heal from intrusive thoughts and negative beliefs
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What role your unprocessed childhood trauma has in your current infidelity issues
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What core beliefs are underlying the infidelity that you are believing and how to heal them
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Healing from the trauma of gaslighting
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What real remorse and accountability look like for the cheating partner and what they can do to get there
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What your specific negative cycles are in couple’s dynamics and how to have healing conversations that restructure your bond
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Reconciling who you thought your partner was with their betrayal
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Understanding and resolving the rage
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Learning to trust yourself and your gut again
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Learning to set healthy boundaries and put your needs first
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Healing from codependent cycles and meeting your partner from an empowered, independent stance
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Exploring intergenerational trauma and its role in perpetuating patterns of addiction, escape and betrayal
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Mourning the relationship you thought you had and integrating the old narrative with this new understanding of your partner and the relationship
Belize Retreat Schedule
DAY 1:
16:00 - 19:00
- Orientation and framing
- Cacao ceremony and sound healing
- EMDR resourcing and target development with Rebecca and Binny
- Attachment theory and negative cycle workshop with Rebecca and Binny
DAY 2:
Morning Session
09:00 - 12:15
Betrayed Partner group:
- Healing from childhood wounding and core beliefs that block infidelity recovery
- Inner child work with Binny
Cheating Partner group:
- Learning to find your own resilience and early imprint attachment repair work with Binny
- Exploring the choice to cheat from the lens of childhood core beliefs and attachment trauma using EMDR with Rebecca
Afternoon Group Session
14:00 - 16:00
- Family Constellations Workshop with Rebecca
DAY 3:
Morning Session
09:00 - 12:15
Betrayed Partner group:
- Healing from intrusive thoughts using EMDR with Rebecca
- Learning to regulate your nervous system after trauma using somatic interventions with Binny
Cheating Partner group:
- Inner child work with Binny
- Exploring lying, hiding and gaslighting strategies through the lens of childhood wounding using EMDR with Rebecca
Afternoon Group Session
14:00 - 16:00
- Unpacking your negative cycle couples workshop with Rebecca and Binny
DAY 4:
Morning Session
Betrayed Partner work:
- EMDR with Rebecca focused on healing mistrust of self and the impact of gaslighting and trickle-truthing
- Working with rage and setting healthy boundaries with Binny
Cheating Partner work:
- Working with and overcoming shame so that you can offer your partner what they need when they are in pain with Binny
- EMDR with Rebecca focused on healing shame and being accountable
Afternoon Session
- Waterfall hike
- Couples workshop: Practice with ONLY communicating underlying needs and feelings related to betrayal questions
- Individual couples sessions
DAY 5:
Morning Session
Betrayed Partner work:
- EMDR with Rebecca: Integrating the relationship you thought you had with this new reality
- Future-casting using EMDR with Binny: Working with your fears of returning home and spiraling in trigger again
Cheating Partner work:
- Future-casting using EMDR with Binny: Working with your fears of returning home and spiraling in shame again
- Connecting the dots and understanding your WHY with Rebecca: Understanding the full picture of your trauma and attachment history, what you projected onto your partner at the time that you cheated, what the affair represented to you and helped you escape
Afternoon and Evening Session
- Family constellations work
- Restructuring your bond couples workshop with Rebecca and Binny
- Individual couples sessions
- Closing ceremony and sharing circle
